In her late thirties, journalist Jill Smolowe’s life and career at Time magazine was on track. Her husband, Joe, was still her most trusted confidante and best friend. And now that she and Joe had decided finally to have a child, Jill assumed the pregnancy that had come so easily to all the women in her family would be her own next chapter. But nature had a different script in mind.
As her quest for a child swerved from the roller coaster of infertility procedures toward the baffling maze of adoption options, Jill’s desperation deepened — while Joe’s resistance to children only hardened. In the fog of depression, disappointments, and dead ends, their marriage began to founder. Then, halfway around the world, in Yangzhou, China, she encountered a future she’d never imagined might be hers.
Honest and intimate, An Empty Lap is as much a window on a marriage as on a high-stakes baby chase. Compelling, beautifully told and as insightful as a novel, it’s filled with emotions that anyone who has yearned for a child will recognize.
“Compelling … Deeply moving … Eminently readable.”
–The New York Times Book Review
“[A] heartwrenching account … readers of either gender will relate.”
“Engrossing … Smolowe’s unromanticized understanding of what it takes for two highly opinionated adults to work through some of coupledom’s most stressful challenges is what gives this book its appeal … She makes compelling general-interest reading out of a special-interest subject. A-”
“Harrowing but ultimately joyous … Smolowe tells her story with a combination of wit, emotion and skill … The couple’s mutual journey has a powerful effect.”
“Written with vitality and wit, it is intended for all adults — those whose laps are full and those whose laps remain to be filled. Recommended.”